Take Baby Steps To Get You From Break Up To Make Up!

Yes, so often people rush into things in an attempt to patch things up with their ex!
 
They want their ex to 'take them back', or 'forgive them' and just act as if nothing has ever happened! Would be nice if things could work this way, but sorry, it won't! I know you are desperate! But make peace with the idea that nothing will happen overnight.

 I know we live in a fast paced, everything is instant society. You don't have time for this, you don't have time for that. Hey, maybe that was the starting point of the problems in your relationship! No time!!!
 
If you want a healthy relationship, you are going to have to make time for your partner. And now that you already have problems, it might be a good idea to start by taking baby steps.

Expecting to just be completely forgiven, or complete reconciliation, are big leaps!

What is effective in the re-bonding process, will be those tiny little steps, one at a time.

Grabbing coffee together is a smaller step than 'going on a date', which is smaller than getting back together.
Maybe even consider a smaller step than that. Many times, the best course of action might even be to take a step 'back'!
 
I included a short video here, which will explain how.

I hope this is helpful, and remember to take it slow. If your relationship is important to you, you have to spend time in it.